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7700 Irvine Center Drive,
Suite 800
Irvine, CA 92618
Marriage counselors often talk about how couples repeat the same "dance steps" when they argue. It is common for couples who are divorcing to have developed some bad communication styles, and they may have engaged in these styles for so long that they are now habitual. A marriage counselor may try to teach couples new dance steps to save their marriage and handle conflict. Unfortunately, if the couple continues to be stuck in old patterns of conflict, these destructive patterns do not get any better when they divorce.
Destructive Divorce Dances
THE LIMBO
Characteristics
How Low Can You Go?
THE MACARENA
Characteristics
Hey Macarena!!!
STOMP
Characteristics
Take that!
SALSA
Characteristics
Hot! Hot! Hot!
When couples are divorcing and find themselves engaging in a "destructive dance" they need to step back, breath and think about replacing their destructive dance steps with a more thoughtful and constructive process. A good mediator will help the couple recognize when they are engaging in old destructive habits and guide them to find new productive ways for communicating through the divorce process.
Posted on 05/29/2021 at 10:34 AM
When you commit to a cooperative mindset, choose a sensible dispute resolution model and assemble a team of divorce professionals to guide you through the process, you and your spouse will be empowered to make wise decisions regarding the termination of your marriage.
Call now to schedule an initial consultation with one of our Mediators.
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7700 Irvine Center Drive,
Suite 800,
Irvine, CA 92618
Phone. 949.788.2992
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Email. terri@breerlaw.com